Friday, April 29, 2011

A Royal Wedding makes one think............

To whom it may concern,
 
I spent 13 years of my life "settleing".  I settled when it came to my relationship.  I settled when it came to my actual wedding.  I even settled each Friday night choosing a resturant to eat at.  I can't do this anymore.  I have come to a point in my life where I have to stand up for what I want.  I have to make changes in myself to be more appealing to the type of man that I believe I am worth having.  I am in the process of making huge changes in my life.  I want to be a better person, not just for that next relationship but for everyone I come in contact with including my family and friends.  I have given a great deal of thought to it and have deceided that I would compile a list of the things im looking for in a future partner.  The list will more than likely be updated and edited frequently. I thought I would start off with a list of questions that I could use to break the ice.
 
Top 100 Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
  1. How do you visualize your future?
  2. Which experience would you say is the turning point of your life?
  3. What has been the most important decision in your life?
  4. Do you have any enemies? Why?
  5. Where would you like to go for your honeymoon?
  6. What has been your most embarrassing moment?
  7. What do you do when you are bored?
  8. How do you spend time with your family?
  9. What is your definition of intimate?
  10. What are your future financial plans?
  11. What is your biggest goal in life?
  12. What is your favorite book?
  13. Describe yourself in 3 words?
  14. Tell me your 3 weaknesses.
  15. Who is your hero?
  16. What is the most important thing in life?
  17. What would be your questions to ask on a first date?
  18. What are your bad habits?
  19. What is your point of view of the world?
  20. What would you do to leave an impression on the girl on your first date?
  21. How would you describe the perfect life?
  22. What has been your most intimate experience?
  23. Who has been your most intimate partner?
  24. Do you still have feelings for an ex partner?
  25. How long did your most intimate relationship last?
  26. Would you rather follow your heart or your head?
  27. How would you react if I told I have had a relationship with a partner of the same sex?
  28. How and when would you know if I am the right one?
  29. Do you believe in God?
  30. Have you voted for someone you wished you hadn't?
  31. What hobbies do you spend money on?
  32. Have to ever experimented with drugs?
  33. What do you think is the key to good parenting techniques?
  34. Would you like to have pets in the house?
  35. What is the most weirdest thing about you?
  36. Tell me something about your first kiss.
  37. If your parents don't like me for some reason, what are you willing to do about it?
  38. Have you ever regretted one of your 'romantic encounters'?
  39. Do you believe in soulmates?
  40. What is your dream job?
  41. Which celebrity/author/singer would you like to know (if you get a chance)? And why?
  42. If you could meet a famous person, living or dead, whom would you like to meet?
  43. Who is you favorite fictional character and why?
  44. Do you prefer reading books or watching movies?
  45. What do you think is your biggest regret?
  46. What do you think, does your ideal vacation look like?
  47. Which is your favorite movie?
  48. If you are allowed to do just only one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  49. What is the one thing about you that you take pride in?
  50. What is the most courageous thing you have ever done in your life?
  51. What is your first memory?
  52. What do you like most about you?
  53. What would you want to do to live your life differently?
  54. What are you looking for in a relationship? In the long term or short term?
  55. If you have three wishes, what do would you wish for?
  56. Which is the song that makes you happy?
  57. If you could be a superpower, what would be your superpower?
  58. Which movie makes you cry no matter how many times you watch it?
  59. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
  60. What is the best advice you ever received?
  61. What kind of music you like?
  62. Why did your last relationship break?
  63. Are you still friends with her?
  64. What was the best and the worst moment you spent with her?
  65. What are the craziest things that you've done?
  66. Where do you see yourself in ten years from now?
  67. If you could go on a road trip where would you go?
  68. What is your favorite memory of your family?
  69. What are your expectations from your better half?
  70. What is your topmost ambition in life?
  71. What are your views on open relationships?
  72. What is it that you are passionate about?
  73. If you have to be in a long distance relationship, are you willing to fight it out?



Here's a list of 20 serious questions to ask your boyfriend, and find out what you mean to him.
  1. Do you have any close female friends, other than me and any of your female family members?
  2. Do you have feelings for any of your ex-girlfriends or a best friend who you liked in the past?
  3. Everyone has regrets about their past. Which is the one thing in your past you would like to change?
  4. How do you think you would react if you found out I was cheating on you?
  5. What did you think of me, when we first met (be honest)?
  6. What do you think is the best quality in me, which attracts you?
  7. What is that one thing in me, which you would like to change if given a chance?

Take a look at some of these questions you can ask on a first date.
  • What do you do in your spare time?


10 questions to get to know someone better which can actually serve as first date conversation starters that can help you have a great date.
  1. What is the main thing that makes you unique?
  2. Do you have a nickname? What is it?
  3. Name one thing that many people don't know about you?
  4. Do you have any phobias?
  5. What's the craziest thing that you've done?
  6. What is your worst dating experience?
  7. Name three exotic countries you would like to visit?
  8. If you could have three wishes granted what would they be?

  • If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
  • If asked to visit just one place before you die, where would you go and why?
  • What according to you is success?
  • What do you like about yourself?
  • Which are those 5 things that we will always find in your room?
  • Which is your favorite TV program?
  • What is that one thing you would love to do before you die?
  • Have your past relationships taught you anything?
  • If you win a lottery of 1 million dollars, how would you spend it?
  • What is or are your worst habit(s)?


  • What makes for a perfect woman?
  • If you could change one thing in your past, what would it be?
  • If you could go anywhere in the world, which place would you choose?


Now....let's find out if I get any answers from these questions....